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The Pain of Pretending

The most agonizing moments of my life have all been, in some way, about not being real. Pretending. Pretending to be satisfied when I…

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Tom Gentry
Aug 09, 2019
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The most agonizing moments of my life have all been, in some way, about not being real. Pretending. Pretending to be satisfied when I wasn’t. Pretending I wasn’t hurt. Pretending I could fill the hole with things. Pretending not to see red flags. Pretending someone wasn’t there. Pretending they were. Pretending not to be an…

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